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Mon Jul 11, 2011, 3:29 AM
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When I got back from my recent trip to Ireland I had a phone call from my brother to say my aunt had died. This was one of my mothers sisters, she would have been 87 this week. I now have just one of the original sisters left, she is 93. I felt very sad as I had not been told, however whilst I was away, I was in my daughters garden and looking out over the sea. [link] I had a sense that she had gone.

A couple of weeks passed and then a letter arrived from her solicitor to say I am mentioned in the will and have been left a small sum of money. I thanked my aunt mentally and am now in a better position to face the oncoming cold Winter.  It is not a lot of money but I am truly grateful to my aunt for thinking of me. This is her wedding, I was bridesmaid. My Mother is on the far left, the aunt who is still alive is the one on the far right. [link]

Yesterday my aunt phoned me and told me where I came from, I have never really known due to dysfunctional family situations. I knew my maternal grandmother's maiden name was Blount and that there was an Earldom in the history, dating back to Henry the V111. He was Master at Horse to the king.  However yesterdays revelation was pretty impressive. This was the house my grandmother came from...[link]

The latest update: I got in touch with the archivist for  Mapledurham house, he seemed very nice, I sent him a photo with all my aunts, in fact the one linked to above. He wanted to know all the details about my grandmother. On Tuesday morning I heard back from him, he has absolutely no record of my grandmother. Last night I was talking to my aunt again for 2 hours, I couldn't bring myself to tell her that she had the wrong end of the stick about who we are. She is 93 and has lived this story all her life. It is part of who she thinks she is... Personally I don't care, I am really glad as I hate any sort of class barriers and snobbery. However I can't tell others how to live their lives, this is her dream not mine...

Roz XX

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~yeahgirl11 Jul 15, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
That's terrible to hear Rozz. Not sure if you accept prayer, but if you do, I'm praying for you. :hug: Thankfully you have children, so you'll never be alone, and you can carry on your family line. Kind of odd that no one else on your mother's side had no children. I mean, did they even have birth control in 1943? :lol:
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=Rozrr Jul 15, 2011   Digital Artist
I was born in 1944. However my mother was second to youngest and according to the rest married an animal... Oh my God they had sex is the actual interpretation of that. They had birth control in Ancient Egypt. They use to shove a stone in their uterus, they did the same with the camels. My Aunts just didn't want children, hard to realise when they came from such a big family... Their careers were more important to them. I had 2 children a daughter first and then a son 17 months later, my daughter is 46 this Sunday same day as my son's Daughter, she will be 8. He has 2 older sons.

I am not sad about my Aunt, she would have been 87 yesterday. I hadn't seen her for many years. I have some nice memories from my childhood with her and a lot of bad ones...After my mother died, not one of them would give me or my brothers a home... Sometimes I would walk miles to see them and have the door shut in my face. However I am glad to have this little legacy, I have forgiven and forgotten the pain they all caused me and will use the small bit of money to help my own children and myself get through the coming Winter without worrying about the bills too much...

My Daughter lives in Ireland, I don't travel well now, we see each other when we can and have the money to travel. My son lives about 100 miles away and we try to see each other a couple of times a year. However we are always on the phone or Facebook and are all really close.

My eldest grandson has just started a great new channel on YouTube, if you have time please take a look. The user name is Previews4films... It's just trailers for all the forthcoming movies. I think it is really wonderful and a great project for a 14 year old boy. YouTube obviously like what he is doing as they have offered him a partnership. This has just happened this week and is really exciting. Hope you will subscribe and give him some support.

Thanks for everything

Roz XX
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!SMerle Jul 12, 2011  Professional Photographer
Wow! Roz that is a total shocker. Sorry to hear about the loss of your aunt. :hug: Its always nice to be remembered in such a special way. Its nice to know you will be a little bit more secure during the upcoming months. Takes a little stress off your shoulders.
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=Rozrr Jul 12, 2011   Digital Artist
Yes thanks Merle. It won't last long as my kids are broke too.
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=rockgem Jul 12, 2011  Professional Digital Artist
i'm so sorry to hear about your loss :hug:
but your family history sounds amazing to say the least and i'm glad you had a wonderful time over in Ireland
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=Rozrr Jul 12, 2011   Digital Artist
Thanks Gemma. I am fine, been talking on the phone to the last remaining aunt for hours... I think she will get the telegram from the Queen. She is 93 and in great form...
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=rockgem Jul 13, 2011  Professional Digital Artist
wow - now that would be something special a telegram from the queen it always amazes me when i stop to consider all the things both good and bad that a person aged 100 will have seen in their lifetime
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=Rozrr Jul 13, 2011   Digital Artist
I think reaching 100 is the wonderful thing not the telegram. I am not in the slightest way a royalist. However it will mean a great deal to her. 7 years to go. Not long at all really.
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=rockgem Jul 13, 2011  Professional Digital Artist
:nod: too true and you're right seven years is nothing really in terms of time
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=snow-valkyrie Jul 11, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I am so sorry for your lose. :hug:
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