No Llamas please
When I got back from my recent trip to Ireland I had a phone call from my brother to say my aunt had died. This was one of my mothers sisters, she would have been 87 this week. I now have just one of the original sisters left, she is 93. I felt very sad as I had not been told, however whilst I was away, I was in my daughters garden and looking out over the sea.
[link] I had a sense that she had gone.
A couple of weeks passed and then a letter arrived from her solicitor to say I am mentioned in the will and have been left a small sum of money. I thanked my aunt mentally and am now in a better position to face the oncoming cold Winter. It is not a lot of money but I am truly grateful to my aunt for thinking of me. This is her wedding, I was bridesmaid. My Mother is on the far left, the aunt who is still alive is the one on the far right.
[link] Yesterday my aunt phoned me and told me where I came from, I have never really known due to dysfunctional family situations. I knew my maternal grandmother's maiden name was Blount and that there was an Earldom in the history, dating back to Henry the V111. He was Master at Horse to the king. However yesterdays revelation was pretty impressive. This was the house my grandmother came from...
[link]The latest update: I got in touch with the archivist for Mapledurham house, he seemed very nice, I sent him a photo with all my aunts, in fact the one linked to above. He wanted to know all the details about my grandmother. On Tuesday morning I heard back from him, he has absolutely no record of my grandmother. Last night I was talking to my aunt again for 2 hours, I couldn't bring myself to tell her that she had the wrong end of the stick about who we are. She is 93 and has lived this story all her life. It is part of who she thinks she is... Personally I don't care, I am really glad as I hate any sort of class barriers and snobbery. However I can't tell others how to live their lives, this is her dream not mine...
Roz XX
I am not sad about my Aunt, she would have been 87 yesterday. I hadn't seen her for many years. I have some nice memories from my childhood with her and a lot of bad ones...After my mother died, not one of them would give me or my brothers a home... Sometimes I would walk miles to see them and have the door shut in my face. However I am glad to have this little legacy, I have forgiven and forgotten the pain they all caused me and will use the small bit of money to help my own children and myself get through the coming Winter without worrying about the bills too much...
My Daughter lives in Ireland, I don't travel well now, we see each other when we can and have the money to travel. My son lives about 100 miles away and we try to see each other a couple of times a year. However we are always on the phone or Facebook and are all really close.
My eldest grandson has just started a great new channel on YouTube, if you have time please take a look. The user name is Previews4films... It's just trailers for all the forthcoming movies. I think it is really wonderful and a great project for a 14 year old boy. YouTube obviously like what he is doing as they have offered him a partnership. This has just happened this week and is really exciting. Hope you will subscribe and give him some support.
Thanks for everything
Roz XX
but your family history sounds amazing to say the least and i'm glad you had a wonderful time over in Ireland